The Bride

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Set the Date:When should you get married?

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Congratulations!  If you’re reading this it’s probably because you’ve recently gotten engaged and now the next decision, what day is best to get Married. There are a lot of things to consider when choosing your day.  Is there a time of year your family gets together regularly, are there dates or seasons your family...

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Traditional wedding ceremony order

The vows are the center of most wedding ceremonies. Religious and cultural rituals differ, of course, but if you were to outline a standard service, the ceremony order would look something like this.   Processional – The couple and wedding party enter the ceremony room or sanctuary, usually with accompanying music   Opening remarks...

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Unity Candle (Catholic Tradition)

This joining ritual is quite popular tradition at Catholic weddings, but its significance is universal: the joining of the couple as a new family, as well as the merging of their two original families. Usually the officiant will explain the unity candle’s meaning – the following is an example:   _____ and _____, the...

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Triple Ring Exchange (Eastern Orthodox Tradition)

Triple Ring Exchange (Eastern Orthodox Tradition) The wedding rings are blessed during the betrothal ceremony. After reciting blessings and biblical passages, the priest makes the sign of the cross while holding the rings and declaring the betrothal. He may hold the rings in his hands while pressing the foreheads of the couple three times...

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11 Traditional Religious Vows

Here are a collection of 11 Traditional Religious Vows   1. Basic Protestant Vows I_____ take thee, _______ , to be my wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do...

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Test the four Elements (Yoruba tradition)

Test the four Elements (Yoruba tradition) In a ritual adapted from a Yoruba tradition, the bride and groom taste four flavors that represent different emotions within a relationship: sour (lemon), bitter (vinegar), hot (cayenne), and sweet (honey). By tasting each of the flavors, the couple symbolically demonstrates that they will be able to get...

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Tea or Sake Ceremony (Chinese and Japanese Tradition)

Tea or Sake Ceremony (Chinese and Japanese Tradition) It is part of the wedding ceremony for the couple o present their parents with tea (in China) or sake (in Japan), to show respect and o represent the new family bond. In a traditional Chinese ea ceremony, the bride serves ea with sugar to the...

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Seven Steps (Hindu tradition)

Seven Steps (Hindu tradition) After the couples has taken seven steps around the fire at their ceremony, their bond is sealed, and the following is recited in a ritual, Saptha Padhi. It also makes a beautiful reading on its own. We have taken the seven steps. You have become mine forever. Yes, we have...

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Non-Denominational Sand Ceremony

Here a a collection of sand ceremonies.  Similar to a unity candle the ceremony represents the joining of two lives into one.  This ceremony is especially well suited for summer weddings, lake weddings, and beach weddings. 1. As the minister says the following wording, the couple alternately pours sand into the glass vessel to...

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Rose Ceremony (Non-Denominational)

Non-Denominational Rose Ceremony This modern ritual incorporates one of the most beloved symbols of romantic love – the rose. A white one is used in honor of the wedding day. GROOM (handing bride the rose): ______________, take his rose as a symbol of my love. It began as a tiny bud and blossomed, just...

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